Thursday, August 21, 2014
Facebook Drama - It's An Epidemic
It amazes me, the stupidity in this country overcoming common sense and the thirst for knowledge. The resources we have to search out answers is amazing – not only do we have libraries, but we have the internet that gives us a choice to believe or search and there are a lot of us who would rather not search, even if we don’t believe. We would rather sit complacently by and share a story rather than find out if it’s true.
What’s my problem today? Facebook, again. I wish I could quit it, I really do, but I like the fact that it has kept me in touch with family members that I normally wouldn’t hear from on a day to day basis, and it has reconnected me with friends from long ago. That said, it makes me realize that some of my friends are more toward the bottom of the food chain.
Recently, an old acquaintance posted about toothpaste and chemicals and color bars. When I saw it I thought to myself is this true? And I immediately went in search of an answer. It wasn’t true and I posted the link in his comments section, hoping that it wouldn’t go further. Under my post someone swore that they were switching toothpastes. They couldn’t believe it. I wanted to comment for them to read the link above them, but I wanted to see how far it would go. My friend didn’t acknowledge my contribution. Several people ignored it and then the last person to post said it was a hoax and he liked their comment. Now I know what I’m dealing with here – he’s a total drama queen that wants to get everyone worked up and then let them know there’s nothing to worry about. He lives for dramatic comments and fights among his friends that he can monitor, and even though I loved working with him years ago, I’m going to un-friend him. In fact, I’m going to go through my list and dismiss others as well. The ones I just don’t talk to, the ones that have “collected” me, I will leave in my internet dust.
I do have friends who post old Amber Alerts or news stories who don’t check on them before they re-post them. The most common post is of the two little boys who were abducted somewhere in the middle of the country by their parents. The headline doesn’t say that though, it just says they were taken. Every time I click on that story so I can find the link that says they’ve been found. I then post it to her page and every time I get a Thank God! response from her. I don’t mind this so much as she’s actually reading what I posted. Kind of makes me happy that she is considering what I said.
I don’t usually go all ape-shit about expired amber alerts because it puts the fear of God into people and might make them a little more wary for themselves and their children, maybe even their dogs and cats. Who knows? I like to let them know, though, if they’ve been found, especially if it’s a good ending.
I guess as I get older I don’t worry so much of offending someone with the truth. I’m guessing some people don’t like it, and I’m realizing that sometimes I just don’t care. I’m tired of lies, smokescreens, and un-thought-thru “shares”. And I’m tired of people saying they are my friend when they are not, and me wasting my time on them.
By the way, I know I'm not the only one experiencing this - what sets you off???