This is me. These are my thoughts and ideas and this is my life. I would like to write a book that someone besides myself would want to read. I dream of a better tomorrow, not just for myself but for our country and our world. I love animals and nature and people sometimes scare me even though I will throw myself between a dog I don't know and my own dog. If you follow me hopefully I will make it a habit to write and you will learn more as we go, and hopefully I will too.
Monday, August 5, 2013
Life is Like A Box of Chocolates
“Life is like
a box of chocolates, you never know what you’re gonna get”, said Forrest Gump’s
mama.She’s right, you don’t.I worry about a lot of things, but in the end
what is going to happen is going to happen.Yesterday, all afternoon I was harassed by my daughter who wanted me to
pick her up and drive her to the store.In all fairness, if she didn’t live as far away as she does now, and if
I hadn’t been so tired, I probably would’ve done it.
Now, I’ve been
telling people lately that things are getting better. She’s learning the
boundaries that I’ve set for her and is abiding by them.Never in my working life except when she was
a young child has she called me less at work.Then – BANG!She called me
yesterday at least ten times at my office and probably the same on my cell
phone.It’s not like the phone rings
constantly here, so the phone ringing as much as it did was noticeable.I answer the phone so I was ok on that end,
but I was just so disappointed and angry that she would do this.I was hurt that she would think nothing of
putting my job in jeopardy for her wants, and it was a want, not a need, no
matter how much she phrased things that way.
I wish I felt
good about doing nice things for my daughter.I wish I could enjoy spending time with her.I wish I had spent more time disciplining her
and not making it up to her that I had left her father and pushed her into a
single parent household.The main reason
I did that was because I didn’t want her to see women as something to be pushed
around and used, possibly as a punching bag or a money machine.I left him before she was two.She’s with someone just like that now.
I wish I knew
her hopes and dreams, and maybe someday when she’s not asking me for something,
when we are content to be with each other, when her husband allows her to be
alone with me, I can ask her and find out what’s on her mind.As it is now they latch on to everything they
get and see what they can trade it for – for him.It’s not a happy life for her.Certainly not the one I envisioned for her
when I held her in my arms for the first time.All of my hopes and dreams for her have shattered and I can only pray
that things will get better for her.
Her path, the
one she’s chosen, is the one that hurts her the most.If she walked the straight and narrow and did
things the way she was supposed to she would get to a life she could enjoy
without handouts and begging.At least I
think she would.I just wish she’d try,
and I wish he would let her.‘Cause
she’ll never know, just like that box of chocolates.I just wish she’d grab one and try it…